My name is Wendy. November 23rd of 2011 I found out that my husband of 5.5 years was having an affair. I found out from the woman that he had sex with. Upon further investigation, I learned that he had joined several dating sites and was sexting multiple women through Yahoo Instant Messenger, email and the dating sites. He only met up with one of them because she was the only one who was local and after meeting her twice they decided to meet again for their sexual encounter. Her name is Paula.
Paula is the one who informed me of all of this because after Mike had sex with her, he wanted nothing more to do with her and so he slowly pulled away from her. She discovered his multiple accounts on the site they had met on, so she wanted to out him and ruin his life because she was pissed at him. She said that he had misled her into believing that she had a chance with him – that he had told her they could make it as a couple. Did she really expect to have a long-term relationship with a married man who was on a dating site stating that he was married, but there because of the lack of sex in his marriage??
My initial response to her was, “Thank you for the information.” I guess she expected/wanted me to react a lot differently and side with her, and when I didn’t she pushed to send me all of the details and did so against my permission. She continued to harass me until February 3rd, 2012. That is the last time she has contacted me.
The last names of everyone will not be disclosed to keep everyones’ lives private. If you want to read more about our journey after his affair, please start from day one by clicking on The Journey above or by going to my list of archives at the bottom…
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